Tomorrow is Shad’s birthday – he will be 35. I have been talking to Reilly about what he wants to give Daddy for his birthday. His first idea was a truck with a trailer that came off. I explained that it sounded like something he would want – not really what Daddy would want. He agreed and said that a new flying vehicle would be good, or a train or a boat with a trailer. Again, we talked about what he wanted versus what Daddy would want – and how we should think about things for the person who’s birthday it was instead of ourselves. Hmmmmm…. I don’t think I’m making any progress…. we’ll keep searching.